In the rush of life, it’s easy to overlook what really matters. Between work, school, sports and endless to-dos, it’s hard to find time to slow down and connect with those we care about most. That’s why our family prioritizes “shared time”—simple, intentional ways to build memories, connect, and enjoy each other’s company.

For us, these moments aren’t grand, but they mean everything. Here are a few of our favourite ways to spend time together, and why they’ve become so special.

Friday Pizza Nights: A Special Tradition for Unwinding Together

Every Friday, we gather around the table for pizza night, a fun tradition passed down from my husband’s family. We eat dinner together most nights, but Friday pizza night is different. It’s our one night to relax, unwind, and let go of the week, complete with a movie or show that makes everyone laugh. Yes, it breaks our usual no-TV-at-dinner rule — but that’s part of what makes it so special! It’s a moment to pause, share stories, and reconnect in a relaxed way.

And if life gets busy, sometimes Friday pizza becomes Saturday pizza, and that’s okay. It’s about having time together and finding fun in the end-of-week ritual, no matter the day.

Game Nights: Creating Moments of Laughter and Connection

In a household full of activities, game nights are a welcome escape from the busyness. Board games or card games bring out the laughter and friendly competition, giving us a break from screens and schedules. Whether we’re playing classic games or trying something new, this is time spent face-to-face, laughing, and connecting. It’s a reminder to just enjoy each other’s company, bringing us closer with each round.

Movie and Series Nights: Bonding Over Stories We Love

Family time can also mean relaxing together to watch a favourite movie or continue a TV series. These cozy evenings are low-key and easy, yet full of connection. Sometimes we even choose themed snacks or let everyone dress up in cozy PJs. It’s the kind of togetherness that lets us wind down, talk about our favourite scenes, and look forward to “next time.” Like everything else, we keep it flexible, making sure it’s a joy and not a chore.

Extending Family Time to Friends

For us, family isn’t just about blood—it’s about who we invite into our lives. Our friends are an extension of our family, and they know they’re always welcome. Sunday football games are a perfect example. Friends often text us asking to join, and it’s never an interruption; it’s just our extended family wanting to be part of the day. These get-togethers add warmth to our weekends, making us grateful for everyone who shares in our time together.

Staying Flexible with Family Time

It’s easy to feel pressured to do all the family activities all the time, but that’s not realistic. We keep these moments flexible, adding them in when we can and adjusting around schedules. If family game night doesn’t happen one week, that’s okay. The purpose isn’t to check off a list but to create connection, so flexibility keeps it fun and stress-free.

Find Your Own Family Connections

If these ideas don’t resonate, think about the activities that feel meaningful in your family. Maybe it’s a Sunday breakfast tradition, an evening walk, or a gratitude circle after dinner. Make a list of what appeals to you from other ideas—like those in this article—and try incorporating a few that feel right. These little moments, simple and intentional, are the ones that create lasting connection and warmth, even in the midst of busy schedules.

Making Time for What Matters Most

In a world that moves so fast, these small moments remind us to slow down and be present. Family time doesn’t need to be elaborate or expensive; it just needs to be ours. These shared times are a way to connect, laugh, and build memories we’ll carry long after the moment fades.